Comments for manmail http://manmailsite.com encouraging intercourse Sat, 11 Oct 2008 09:32:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 Comment on MEMO: Share the Chivalry by Jay http://manmailsite.com/2008/05/memo-share-the-chivalry/#comment-187 Jay Mon, 29 Sep 2008 03:19:14 +0000 http://manmailsite.com/?p=37#comment-187 I have always been a man of chivalry even though my own paternal influences were void of any such respect and honor for the women of not only our lives but of the world. I often recieve a shocked look of disbelief when I do open a door for a lady who is either entering or leaving an establishment. This made me start thinking about how sad it is that the act of chivalry is so foriegn to many women and men these days. Being the father of 6 girls, I place chivalry as a neccessary quality for any young man who comes calling upon my little princesses. Thanks for your message of hope for this somewhat forgotten art.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('187','Jay'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('187','Jay','I have always been a man of chivalry even though my own paternal influences were void of any such respect and honor for the women of not only our lives but of the world. I often recieve a shocked look of disbelief when I do open a door for a lady who is either entering or leaving an establishment. This made me start thinking about how sad it is that the act of chivalry is so foriegn to many women and men these days. Being the father of 6 girls, I place chivalry as a neccessary quality for any young man who comes calling upon my little princesses. Thanks for your message of hope for this somewhat forgotten art.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I have always been a man of chivalry even though my own paternal influences were void of any such respect and honor for the women of not only our lives but of the world. I often recieve a shocked look of disbelief when I do open a door for a lady who is either entering or leaving an establishment. This made me start thinking about how sad it is that the act of chivalry is so foriegn to many women and men these days. Being the father of 6 girls, I place chivalry as a neccessary quality for any young man who comes calling upon my little princesses. Thanks for your message of hope for this somewhat forgotten art.
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]]> Comment on Bed Head Beauty by sandra http://manmailsite.com/2008/05/bed-head-beauty/#comment-186 sandra Mon, 11 Aug 2008 16:36:06 +0000 http://manmailsite.com/?p=9#comment-186 UAU! Very beautiful<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('186','sandra'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('186','sandra','UAU! Very beautiful'); return false;">Quote</a></div> UAU! Very beautiful
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]]> Comment on Walls We Build: Sexual Refusal by sandra http://manmailsite.com/2008/06/walls-we-build-sexual-refusal/#comment-185 sandra Sat, 09 Aug 2008 04:04:08 +0000 http://manmailsite.com/?p=43#comment-185 I´m reading your blog for the first time. I'm maried for 6 years now, and I´m a 32 years girl from Portugal,and we have this crisis right now. My husband sometimes don`t speake to me for several days and don`t tell me what is wrong. He knows I`m available but still speak to me in a hard way, or don`t speak at all. And what I do to get even? I Know that he don`t like to me to cut my hair shorter, but, because I´m angry I cut the hair sometimes just to exasperate him, or because I need more looks over me ( makes me feel younger and I feel light like a butterfly). This time went wrong: now he is more upset than never before, and I´m feeling lonely and lonely, I know that eventually today or tomorrow this is gona pass, but I´m starting to dream about an ex-boyfriend wo I don`t see for more 10 years, and I hate this feeling. I´m starting to think that he deserves it, but I want him so badly and he don`t seem to care at all. I supose if he sees your blog , maybe eye open him, but he don`t read english and I don´t want to tell him what`ve read. Thanks so much for let me see what is inside his head. Your love is so heart-touching. Good luck.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('185','sandra'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('185','sandra','I´m reading your blog for the first time.\r\nI\'m maried for 6 years now, and I´m a 32 years girl from Portugal,and we have this crisis right now. My husband sometimes don`t speake to me for several days and don`t tell me what is wrong. He knows I`m available but still speak to me in a hard way, or don`t speak at all. And what I do to get even?\r\nI Know that he don`t like to me to cut my hair shorter, but, because I´m angry I cut the hair sometimes just to exasperate him, or because I need more looks over me ( makes me feel younger and I feel light like a butterfly).\r\nThis time went wrong: now he is more upset than never before, and I´m feeling lonely and lonely, I know that eventually today or tomorrow this is gona pass, but I´m starting to dream about an ex-boyfriend wo I don`t see for more 10 years, and I hate this feeling. I´m starting to think that he deserves it, but I want him so badly and he don`t seem to care at all. I supose if he sees your blog , maybe eye open him, but he don`t read english and I don´t want to tell him what`ve read.\r\nThanks so much for let me see what is inside his head.\r\nYour love is so heart-touching.\r\nGood luck.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> I´m reading your blog for the first time.
I’m maried for 6 years now, and I´m a 32 years girl from Portugal,and we have this crisis right now. My husband sometimes don`t speake to me for several days and don`t tell me what is wrong. He knows I`m available but still speak to me in a hard way, or don`t speak at all. And what I do to get even?
I Know that he don`t like to me to cut my hair shorter, but, because I´m angry I cut the hair sometimes just to exasperate him, or because I need more looks over me ( makes me feel younger and I feel light like a butterfly).
This time went wrong: now he is more upset than never before, and I´m feeling lonely and lonely, I know that eventually today or tomorrow this is gona pass, but I´m starting to dream about an ex-boyfriend wo I don`t see for more 10 years, and I hate this feeling. I´m starting to think that he deserves it, but I want him so badly and he don`t seem to care at all. I supose if he sees your blog , maybe eye open him, but he don`t read english and I don´t want to tell him what`ve read.
Thanks so much for let me see what is inside his head.
Your love is so heart-touching.
Good luck.
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]]> Comment on Exasperate Your Kids: Major in the Minors by Night Writer http://manmailsite.com/2008/07/exasperate-your-kids-major-in-the-minors/#comment-184 Night Writer Tue, 15 Jul 2008 15:06:27 +0000 http://manmailsite.com/?p=69#comment-184 Minor-league players are there because they have potential but aren't ready for the majors yet. Your kids are minors in training to be adults, and they need involved coaches to teach them the rules like "don't make the third out at third base", "hit the cut-off man" and "you'll never make it the Bigs with fungus on your shower shoes." Oh, and "Pick up after yourself" is an important one. Play it like a coach: "Great hit" (you made your own, complicated, lunch). But I never gave you the 'hit and run' sign. Get back in the kitchen, Meat." You don't have to make them stand in the shower while you throw the bats around calling them "lolly-gaggers", but you can tell them that this is a rule that is about relationships; by neglecting their responsibilities and expecting others to clean up after them as if they were big-buck bonus babies, they create extra work for those nearest and dearest to them. The biggest stars in the bigs are sound in their fundamentals. Coach 'em up and their future wives will thank you for it.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('184','Night Writer'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('184','Night Writer','Minor-league players are there because they have potential but aren\'t ready for the majors yet. Your kids are minors in training to be adults, and they need involved coaches to teach them the rules like \"don\'t make the third out at third base\", \"hit the cut-off man\" and \"you\'ll never make it the Bigs with fungus on your shower shoes.\" Oh, and \"Pick up after yourself\" is an important one. \r\n\r\nPlay it like a coach: \"Great hit\" (you made your own, complicated, lunch). But I never gave you the \'hit and run\' sign. Get back in the kitchen, Meat.\"\r\n\r\nYou don\'t have to make them stand in the shower while you throw the bats around calling them \"lolly-gaggers\", but you can tell them that this is a rule that is about relationships; by neglecting their responsibilities and expecting others to clean up after them as if they were big-buck bonus babies, they create extra work for those nearest and dearest to them. \r\n\r\nThe biggest stars in the bigs are sound in their fundamentals. Coach \'em up and their future wives will thank you for it.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> Minor-league players are there because they have potential but aren’t ready for the majors yet. Your kids are minors in training to be adults, and they need involved coaches to teach them the rules like “don’t make the third out at third base”, “hit the cut-off man” and “you’ll never make it the Bigs with fungus on your shower shoes.” Oh, and “Pick up after yourself” is an important one.

Play it like a coach: “Great hit” (you made your own, complicated, lunch). But I never gave you the ‘hit and run’ sign. Get back in the kitchen, Meat.”

You don’t have to make them stand in the shower while you throw the bats around calling them “lolly-gaggers”, but you can tell them that this is a rule that is about relationships; by neglecting their responsibilities and expecting others to clean up after them as if they were big-buck bonus babies, they create extra work for those nearest and dearest to them.

The biggest stars in the bigs are sound in their fundamentals. Coach ‘em up and their future wives will thank you for it.

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]]> Comment on Exasperate Your Kids: Major in the Minors by Laurie http://manmailsite.com/2008/07/exasperate-your-kids-major-in-the-minors/#comment-183 Laurie Fri, 11 Jul 2008 23:03:51 +0000 http://manmailsite.com/?p=69#comment-183 My son was great at leaving messes but I didn't really worry about it. I knew he would be asking for me to do something for him sometime soon like give him a ride to his friend's house or make him something to eat. When he asked for whatever it was at that moment, I said, "Sure I will definitely do that for you just as soon as you have finished picking up you mess." That way it got picked up without the battle and I was happy.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('183','Laurie'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('183','Laurie','My son was great at leaving messes but I didn\'t really worry about it. I knew he would be asking for me to do something for him sometime soon like give him a ride to his friend\'s house or make him something to eat. When he asked for whatever it was at that moment, I said, \"Sure I will definitely do that for you just as soon as you have finished picking up you mess.\" That way it got picked up without the battle and I was happy.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> My son was great at leaving messes but I didn’t really worry about it. I knew he would be asking for me to do something for him sometime soon like give him a ride to his friend’s house or make him something to eat. When he asked for whatever it was at that moment, I said, “Sure I will definitely do that for you just as soon as you have finished picking up you mess.” That way it got picked up without the battle and I was happy.
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]]> Comment on Little Help Here? by Postmaster http://manmailsite.com/2008/05/little-help-here/#comment-182 Postmaster Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:23:41 +0000 http://manmailsite.com/?p=32#comment-182 <a href="#comment-177" rel="nofollow">@Laurie</a> -I will tell you what it is I was thinking when I wrote this post- I had been having a bit of a debate with some younger men about spanking children. They absolutely were appalled by the thought. Equated spanking with boxing or some such liberal nonsense. Of course, they either had no children or their kids were quite young (mostly babies) so they had NO real world experience. I think it is notable that many people are willing to love their kids by giving them stuff but they are not willing to give their kids the ONE THING it is they need and cry out for: discipline. Kids beg for boundaries and will despise their parents later if they won't love them in that way. I have seen it over and over. But try to tell that to a know-it-all twentysomething.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('182','Postmaster'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('182','Postmaster','<a href=\"#comment-177\" rel=\"nofollow\">@Laurie<\/a> -I will tell you what it is I was thinking when I wrote this post- I had been having a bit of a debate with some younger men about spanking children. They absolutely were appalled by the thought. Equated spanking with boxing or some such liberal nonsense. Of course, they either had no children or their kids were quite young (mostly babies) so they had NO real world experience. \nI think it is notable that many people are willing to love their kids by giving them stuff but they are not willing to give their kids the ONE THING it is they need and cry out for: discipline. Kids beg for boundaries and will despise their parents later if they won\'t love them in that way. I have seen it over and over. But try to tell that to a know-it-all twentysomething.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> @Laurie -I will tell you what it is I was thinking when I wrote this post- I had been having a bit of a debate with some younger men about spanking children. They absolutely were appalled by the thought. Equated spanking with boxing or some such liberal nonsense. Of course, they either had no children or their kids were quite young (mostly babies) so they had NO real world experience.
I think it is notable that many people are willing to love their kids by giving them stuff but they are not willing to give their kids the ONE THING it is they need and cry out for: discipline. Kids beg for boundaries and will despise their parents later if they won’t love them in that way. I have seen it over and over. But try to tell that to a know-it-all twentysomething.
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]]> Comment on Little Help Here? by Postmaster http://manmailsite.com/2008/05/little-help-here/#comment-181 Postmaster Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:16:20 +0000 http://manmailsite.com/?p=32#comment-181 <a href="#comment-176" rel="nofollow">@Laurie</a> -Tough love is not "nothing much", Laurie. It is love at its core- being willing to be hated if that is what it takes to benefit the object of your love. That is selflessness, truly.<div class="comment-remix-meta"><a href="#" class="replyto" onclick="replyto('181','Postmaster'); return false;">Reply</a> - <a href="#" class="quote" onclick="quote('181','Postmaster','<a href=\"#comment-176\" rel=\"nofollow\">@Laurie<\/a> -Tough love is not \"nothing much\", Laurie. It is love at its core- being willing to be hated if that is what it takes to benefit the object of your love. That is selflessness, truly.'); return false;">Quote</a></div> @Laurie -Tough love is not “nothing much”, Laurie. It is love at its core- being willing to be hated if that is what it takes to benefit the object of your love. That is selflessness, truly.
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